In the past, when experiencing the shock of grief, I've felt surprised at the way life around me goes on. This time is no different. I think about cousin Art while the birds twitter, the flowers bloom, and my neighbor stops to say hello. I go to the market, prepare meals, brush my teeth. Sadness gives the mundane a heightened beauty.
Rather than write more, I'd like to offer some photos I took the other day with my iPhone, when the flowers and greenery in my yard seemed particularly lovely. Adios, Arturo.
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Barbara--
ReplyDeleteThe colors and vibrancy of your pictures are a fitting tribute to Art. His energy was both a blessing and a curse for him, but it was a very strong force.
I think the shock of the event has sucked the air out of many of us. Thanks for writing--and helping bring a little air back into this relative! Mary-Claire
Sounds like you are really in touch with how you need to respond.
ReplyDeleteVery nice Barbara. Lovely tribute to our life-loving cousin.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry, Barbara. Please accept my condolences.
ReplyDeleteI agree with all comments posted here. What a lovely memorial. In sympathy, Bonnie
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